{"id":41617,"date":"2020-02-12T12:38:46","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T11:38:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oxfordhousebcn.com\/?p=41617"},"modified":"2020-02-19T13:40:50","modified_gmt":"2020-02-19T12:40:50","slug":"english-vocabulary-for-going-on-a-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oxfordhousebcn.com\/en\/english-vocabulary-for-going-on-a-date\/","title":{"rendered":"English Vocabulary For Going On A Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">It\u2019s time for that famous celebration of love and romance &#8211; Valentine\u2019s Day! It is inspired by the sad story of Saint Valentine of Rome. According to legend, he performed weddings for Roman soldiers who were forbidden to marry under Roman law. He was imprisoned for his actions and wrote a letter to his jailer\u2019s daughter before his execution on the 14th of February. The letter was signed <em>From your Valentine<\/em> &#8211; a phrase that is still used today.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">In England and France, the feast of Saint Valentine first became associated with love and romance in medieval times. Geoffrey Chaucer and William Shakespeare both mention Valentine\u2019s Day in their writings. By 1700, it was common to exchange cards and flowers on this day with your partner.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">Even if you don\u2019t have a <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>significant other<\/strong><\/em><\/span>, you can still get involved in the Valentines fun. After all, it\u2019s the perfect day to ask somebody out on a date!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Asking someone out<\/strong><\/em><\/span> can be a really nerve-wracking experience in your first language, so if you\u2019re speaking a second language, like English, it can be even more difficult to know the right thing to say.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">That\u2019s where we come in! This post will give you some ideas for starting a conversation, asking someone out, ways to make suggestions, how to pay compliments &#8211; and even some funny <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>chat-up lines<\/strong><\/em><\/span> to make people laugh!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #2d346f;\"><strong>Chatting someone up<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">Starting a conversation with a complete stranger is a <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>daunting<\/strong><\/em><\/span> prospect! Sometimes it\u2019s best to keep it simple: just approach the person you\u2019d like to talk to and say, \u201cHello, what\u2019s your name? Do you mind chatting for a minute?\u201d <\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">One way of talking to somebody new is to start off with a chat-up line. Yes, they\u2019re a bit <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>corny<\/strong><\/em><\/span> and funny, but if you can make someone laugh when you\u2019re <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>chatting them up<\/strong><\/em><\/span>, they\u2019re more likely to say yes to a date! Here are some of our favourites:<\/p>\n<div class=\"list_styles\"><ul class=''>\n<span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>I think there\u2019s something wrong with your phone &#8211; it doesn\u2019t have my number in it.<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Are we on the Hogwarts Express? Because I think you and I are headed somewhere magical<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Here I am. What were your other two wishes?<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Do you like raisins? How do you feel about a date*?<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Are you a time traveller? Because I think I see you in my future!<\/li>\n<\/span>\n<\/ul><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">*This <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>pun<\/strong><\/em><\/span> works because a date can also refer to a dried fruit, similar to a raisin.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #2d346f;\"><strong>Asking someone out<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">Your chat up line worked, and now it\u2019s time to suggest going out together! Here are some phrases you can use to propose a date to <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>the object of your affections<\/strong><\/em><\/span>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"list_styles\"><ul class=''>\n<span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Would you be interested in going on a date with me?<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Would you like to exchange phone numbers?<\/li>  <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>I wondered if you would like to go out with me sometime?<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Do you have plans this weekend? Would you like to hang out?<\/li>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Are you single? How would you feel about going on a date with me?<\/li>\n<p><\/span>\n<\/ul><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #2d346f;\"><strong>Suggesting an activity<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">Well done, you charmer &#8211; you\u2019ve got a date! Now it\u2019s time to make a plan. Here are some useful phrases for making suggestions without seeming too <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>forceful<\/strong><\/em><\/span>:<\/p>\n<div class=\"list_styles\"><ul class=''>\n<span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>I\u2019m looking forward to our date! <strong>Are you up for<\/strong> going bowling? It\u2019d be fun!<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i><strong>What time should we<\/strong> meet up tonight? <strong>I thought we could<\/strong> go to this cool new bar for a drink!<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i><strong>How about<\/strong> going to an exhibition tonight? Or <strong>would you prefer<\/strong> the cinema?<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i><strong>How do you feel about<\/strong> a picnic this weekend?<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i><strong>I thought we might<\/strong> go for a walk along the beach.<\/li>\n<\/span>\n<\/ul><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #2d346f;\"><strong>Paying a compliment<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">You\u2019re on your date, and it\u2019s going well. You\u2019ve been talking, you\u2019ve been laughing and you want to say something nice and flattering &#8211; but you\u2019re not sure what to say. Here are some ideas:<\/p>\n<div class=\"list_styles\"><ul class=''>\n<span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>I really like your outfit.<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>You look really nice.<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>I think you\u2019re really handsome\/beautiful.<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>You\u2019re a very interesting person.<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>I\u2019m really enjoying your company.<\/li>\n<\/span>\n<\/ul><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #2d346f;\"><strong>Receiving a compliment<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">If you\u2019re the person who receives a compliment, it can be difficult to know what to say! Try one of these phrases:<\/p>\n<div class=\"list_styles\"><ul class=''>\n<span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>Thank you!<\/li> <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>That\u2019s very kind of you.<\/li>  <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>I feel the same.<\/li>  <\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><li><i class='icon-heart'><\/i>How nice of you to say so.<\/li>\n<\/span>\n<\/ul><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">Of course, you could always pay someone a compliment in return.<\/p>\n<div class=\"devider element_size_>\"><div style=\"margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px; \" class=\"divider3\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<h1><strong>Glossary for Language Learners<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">Find the following words in the article and then write down any new ones you didn\u2019t know.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Significant other (exp):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> romantic partner or spouse.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Asking (someone) out (pv):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> to invite someone on a date.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Chat up line (n):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> a phrase to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Daunting (n):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> scary, difficult .<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Corny (adj):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> silly or clich\u00e9d.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Chatting (them) up (pv):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> flirting.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Pun (n):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> a humorous way of using language.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>The object of your affections (exp):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> the person you are attracted to.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><em><strong>Forceful (adj):<\/strong><\/em><\/span> powerful, domineering, bossy.<\/p>\n<div class=\"devider element_size_>\"><div style=\"margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px; \" class=\"divider1\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\"><strong>Key<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">exp = expression<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">pv = phrasal verb<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">n = noun<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify; font-size: 15px;\">adj = adjective<\/p>\n<div class=\"devider element_size_>\"><div style=\"margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px; \" class=\"divider1\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"clear\"><\/div>\n<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #055f65;\"><strong><div class=\"messagebox alert alert-info\" style=\"align:left; background:#ffffff; color:#2D346F; border:1px solid #ffffff\"><h4>Study English at Oxford House Barcelona<\/h4><i class=\"icon-info-sign\"><\/i>Interested in taking an English course at Oxford House Barcelona? 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